"Ulagathula evalavo ponnunga irundhum na yen jessiea luv pannunen???" I started to write a blog based on this but suddenly found many have discussed about LOVE... so Let me go to the next Level....!!
THE MARRIAGE
As soon as i say the word marriage only two words would have arised in your mind " LOVE" and "ARRANGED"
Everyone wishes to have Love cum Arranged Marriage..... But actually it founds to be a rare case....
Let me tell you what points vary and similar in these two different types of Marriage....
CHARACTER:
In Love marriage there is a point called liked character not good character....
In arranged marriage they go for askin good character than liked character....
y is it so????
simple : A good character person can change according to u but the liked character person never changes... Because u are impressed because of his/her character.....
RELIGION,LANGUAGE AND CAST:
In Love marriage this is not a problem till the marriage procedure starts but after that we are in total confusion of which procedure to follow ,which language to speak in home,which GOD'S image to be placed in pooja room... And at last... The mother tongue ll be the bride's mother tongue....
In arranged marriage this is not a problem at all...
DOWRY:
In Love marriage,The person never expects anything other than CARE and AFFECTION from his/her...
In Arranged marriage,This is the biggest of all problem... This factor leads to breaking of affection between eachother....
These are some aspects in which they vary.... and there are still more.....
All can have LOVE CUM ARRANGED MARRIAGE...
If we refuse the wordings of so called "MANGOOSE MANDEYANS"
These people don't have any other business other than spoiling others HAPPINESS...!!!
Always Parents think about these MANGOOSE MANDEYANS comments and stand against ur LOVE...!!!
Whether u do LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE..... Its not a matter at all.....
How eachother share their LOVE after marriage is only Important...
In LOVE Marriage u may loose lot of ppl on ur marriage day... but think of Who is going to stand with u wen u r in some problem... Its only ur PARENTS AND LIFE PARTNER.....
So convince ur PARENTS before they mistake u....
Make them feel that not to worry about MANGOOSE MANDEYANS... and Whatever it is u ll be with them forever for enriching their happiness....!!!
GIRLS:
Girl's parents think that u might have chosen a wrong guy... but make them (feel)realize that u r never wrong...!!!
BOYS:
Boy's its in ur hand not to fail in fulfilling the girl's happiness and prove to their parents...!!!
I WISH EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE LOVE CUM ARRANGED MARRIAGE AND ENJOY...
If u fail to have so Please love the one who has married you and again the equation stands the same LOVE CUM ARRANGED MARRIAGE....!!!
*that mangoose mandeyans will be some other's parents who have stolen their children rights....!!!
Any mistake please do excuse and comments welcome....!!!
WHATEVER IT IS FRIENDS WILL BE WITH U FOREVER TO HELP and SO MY NEXT BLOG is a story "5n"(a story of 5 friends)
THE MARRIAGE
As soon as i say the word marriage only two words would have arised in your mind " LOVE" and "ARRANGED"
Everyone wishes to have Love cum Arranged Marriage..... But actually it founds to be a rare case....
Let me tell you what points vary and similar in these two different types of Marriage....
CHARACTER:
In Love marriage there is a point called liked character not good character....
In arranged marriage they go for askin good character than liked character....
y is it so????
simple : A good character person can change according to u but the liked character person never changes... Because u are impressed because of his/her character.....
RELIGION,LANGUAGE AND CAST:
In Love marriage this is not a problem till the marriage procedure starts but after that we are in total confusion of which procedure to follow ,which language to speak in home,which GOD'S image to be placed in pooja room... And at last... The mother tongue ll be the bride's mother tongue....
In arranged marriage this is not a problem at all...
DOWRY:
In Love marriage,The person never expects anything other than CARE and AFFECTION from his/her...
In Arranged marriage,This is the biggest of all problem... This factor leads to breaking of affection between eachother....
These are some aspects in which they vary.... and there are still more.....
All can have LOVE CUM ARRANGED MARRIAGE...
If we refuse the wordings of so called "MANGOOSE MANDEYANS"
These people don't have any other business other than spoiling others HAPPINESS...!!!
Always Parents think about these MANGOOSE MANDEYANS comments and stand against ur LOVE...!!!
Whether u do LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE..... Its not a matter at all.....
How eachother share their LOVE after marriage is only Important...
In LOVE Marriage u may loose lot of ppl on ur marriage day... but think of Who is going to stand with u wen u r in some problem... Its only ur PARENTS AND LIFE PARTNER.....
So convince ur PARENTS before they mistake u....
Make them feel that not to worry about MANGOOSE MANDEYANS... and Whatever it is u ll be with them forever for enriching their happiness....!!!
GIRLS:
Girl's parents think that u might have chosen a wrong guy... but make them (feel)realize that u r never wrong...!!!
BOYS:
Boy's its in ur hand not to fail in fulfilling the girl's happiness and prove to their parents...!!!
I WISH EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE LOVE CUM ARRANGED MARRIAGE AND ENJOY...
If u fail to have so Please love the one who has married you and again the equation stands the same LOVE CUM ARRANGED MARRIAGE....!!!
*that mangoose mandeyans will be some other's parents who have stolen their children rights....!!!
Any mistake please do excuse and comments welcome....!!!
WHATEVER IT IS FRIENDS WILL BE WITH U FOREVER TO HELP and SO MY NEXT BLOG is a story "5n"(a story of 5 friends)
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